Wife Moves Into Guest Room After Husband Disturbs Sleep
Sleep is important for all. Especially for the working partners, it is essential to have a good sound sleep without any disturbances. Marriage is a bond wherein opinions of the two might not match and result into a conflict. It is hard as it gets filled with pain points. It is even harder if the couple reaches to a point where they aren’t able to sleep properly. No one wants to get his/her sleep disrupted because of the other. Obvious consequence of which would be opposition.
Once there was a husband who got promoted. This promotion came up with change in work timings. Earlier his shift used to be from 10am to 6pm. But now his work shift was changed to 4am to 12pm. Not being a morning person at all, it was quite difficult for him to wake up this early. His wife complained about his morning routine of getting up and turning on the lights daily to find his clothes. Due to this her sleep got disrupted and she made a simple request.
She asked her husband to be ready with his clothes a day before so that he doesn’t feel the need to turn on the lights in the morning. Being a considerate wife, she used to respect her husband’s sleep when she used to work at 5am. She expects him to do the same, keep the lights off and don’t be loud. Annoyed with his repeated actions, wife finally decided to grab her stuff and moves to the guest room. Husband got confused as to what she was doing.
He took his stand and said that the light will be turned on for just 5 minutes. Which his wife says isn’t true. She finds the light to be on even after he finds his clothes and goes for a shower without turning it off. If she gets up and switches it off while he is taking a shower, her husband again turns it on when he is back. He finds the socks and puts on his shoes with the lights on. Wife gets irritated as he can do that on the table besides the kitchen.
The next day her husband begged her to sleep in the bedroom but the same was repeated in the morning. Many reacted on this situation. Some took her side saying that her husband is disrespectful; he should be the one sleeping in the guest room as he needs to get up early. While some said that couples should sleep separately as they have different sleep requirements. Some urged her to seek marriage counseling. One even claimed that her husband must be punishing her to make sure that if he wakes up, she also needs to wake up!
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