This Mother Was Left In A Quagmire When Her Brother Banned Her 2-Year-Old Toddler From His Destination Wedding
An anonymous mother is irritated and disappointed in her brother who has uninvited her 2-year-old daughter. Kids free weddings are okay. However, if you expect parents to go abroad leaving their kid at home with a nanny, it is not okay.
If such weddings are at home, it becomes easy for parents to manage. The sister is unable to understand what could go wrong if a 2-year-old baby is at the venue.
If she gets on board she will have to leave her baby with her husband’s parents for 5 days and that is not a practical solution.
Moreover, the kids are not banned just for the ceremony. They have banned the kids for the whole trip and that is just insane. The baby is his only niece and the mother is not getting the point in excluding her from the event.
People on the platform have their opinion on the matter.
One comment read, “No, I wouldn’t go. And when they have their own [child] in a few years I’d make sure it was mentioned. Often.”
Other people considered it rude and thoughtless.
Another person commented, “He’s being unreasonable to expect you to leave such a young child alone for that amount of time. Maybe one day he’ll have kids and realize how ridiculous his request is!”
There was a person who understood the groom’s point and said that the wedding is not about you or your child.
He further said, “You are being entirely unreasonable to expect the couple to change what they want from their special day to what suits you. You were told no kids; you were told other kids weren’t being invited. Stop it. Either go or don’t. That’s okay but you don’t get to dictate anyone else’s wedding day. You’ve had your own.”
Another one had a similar view as he wrote, “It’s fine for people to have a wedding in the way they want so long as they happily accept some people, including those close to you, may not be there. No guilt trips.”
Everyone has the right to enjoy their wedding the way they want it but is it fair for the parents to leave their kids at home?
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