A woman anonymously shared a story from her partner’s birthday. She mentioned how she had thrown him a party, but as they were half-way through it, she was asked to leave so that her partner could have some privacy to talk to his friends.

The unnamed woman said that she was shocked when she was asked to leave her boyfriend’s party, despite the fact that she had organized the entire thing herself. She mentioned how she wanted to make sure that her boyfriend, who is a doctor had an amazing birthday, so she arranged everything and invited all his friends. But when the party was in mid-swing, one of her boyfriend’s friends from work came up to her and asked her to leave, as they all wanted to discuss something confidential.

The lady had taken her concern to Reddit where she wrote: “I’d arranged for the party and paid for everything. It wasn’t a surprise since the party was held at a restaurant, and he needed heads up so he could invite his doctor friends. We got there then his friends started arriving, an hour later one asked if I could leave because they wanted to discuss work stuff and it’s confidential.” This left her shocked but she laughed, asking him why he thought it was appropriate to discuss work during a party. To this, the man replied that she had an attitude.

An argument stemmed wherein they demanded her to leave the party whereas she absolutely denied it. When the matter escalated, her boyfriend finally intervened only to ask her to keep peace and go home. She completely refused to do so. It was then that she reminded him and told his friends that she had arranged and paid for the party, therefore, it was them who needed to leave as they were just guests. Her partner pulled her aside and begged her to leave, since if she didn’t, his friends would go.

Even then she decided to stay, because of which all his friends left the party and it ended early. Once they were home, the woman’s boyfriend was upset and he complained that she had ruined his birthday by arguing with his friends. When she told him that they were being disrespectful to her, he said that she was wrong too as they wanted to discuss medical stuff and she should’ve respected that instead of making it personal.

People on the internet warned the woman to leave her partner as he didn’t stand up for her when his friend was asking her to leave. They also mentioned that such actions in a relationship are huge red flags. Others applauded her for standing up for herself throughout the argument. One person commented: “Use that red flag as a cape and fly away.” Another person asked the woman if she was dating Satan. They were shocked by the fact that her boyfriend had asked her to leave a birthday dinner which she had paid for. They added that she should feel the joy of ruining his stupid birthday and dump him as soon as possible.

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them,” a third person wrote. They added that even though she had arranged everything for him, he chose his friends over her. They think that it was extremely rude of her partner to ask her to leave, irrespective of her hosting the party or not. They told her that she deserved someone who treats her better.