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Woman Drives 9 Hours to See Boyfriend, Finds He'd Been Cheating

Relationships July, 06, 2025

A woman, along with her children, drove nine long hours to visit her boyfriend and found out that he’d been cheating on her. She took to TikTok to share her story, where she also revealed that she ended the relationship.

This woman was shattered when she drove nine hours to visit her partner, only to find out that he had been cheating on her. This wasn’t it, she even discovered that the man had a baby on the way with his other partner. Known by the username @yummyyamssss, the lady shared her story in a series of videos on TikTok. Her video caption read: “When ya’ll in a long distance relationship and drive nine hours and he forgot to clean the evidence.”

She also shared how she had met her boyfriend on Tinder while in Atlanta and how he later ended up moving to Florida. Once he had settled in there, she and her kids would go and visit him and would usually spend two weeks at his place. She then wrote that this time she and the kids got to his place at one in the morning. She took a shower and her children went to bed since it was so late.

She further explained: “After I get out of the shower I’m looking for ear swabs and I’m ready to put my toothbrush in the draw and I opened it and I see the pink toothbrush. I didn’t think much of it but something told me to snoop through the rest of his stuff so I open the bottom and I see all of those girl products.”

She later added that during her last visit, she had seen Cantu shampoo at his place but she didn’t think of it much and thought that maybe that is what he liked to use because of his hair texture. But this time she also saw a girls’ lotion and she knew things were wrong as she was certain that her man would never wear a girl lotion.

When the woman confronted her partner about the things that she’d seen in his bathroom, he tried to persuade her by telling her that it belonged to his friend who had once brought it over when she needed to take a shower. When the former wasn’t convinced with his explanation, she started packing her stuff to leave but he told her that she had just driven for nine long hours so she should get some rest. He even insisted that he’d sleep on the sofa if she didn’t want to sleep with him.

She sat down to try and sort things out but just then she noticed suspicious-looking hair on his carpet. She mentioned how when she noticed black straight hair on the man’s white rug, she was thrown off since she herself had brown curly hair. Just a look at them, and she knew that those weren’t her hair. Eventually, the guy confessed that he’d been seeing some other woman and that she was three months pregnant.

She mentioned: “I didn’t know what to do other than walk away. I was almost in shock, dude we had been together almost a year. He’d been step-daddy to my kids and all that, we were emotionally attached.” She later found out that he’d been cheating on her with more than one woman. This made her leave the guy for good. In the end she added, “If he put the toothbrush back I peed and cleaned the toilet with it! We tried to make it work but I couldn’t get over it.”