Woman complains on social media that her date bought food for himself and not her
Most people have this notion that when going out on a date, the man usually has to pay for the entire day. Whether they plan to go out to eat, watch a movie or have a fun activity, people feel that the man should pay for everything. But things do not work that way, and people should know what to expect.
Before going out on a date or stepping into a romantic relationship, it is essential to discuss the expectations and boundaries. When you take this step, it helps build a healthy relationship. Most of the time, people now rely on different dating apps to meet their partners and go out on a date. But once they meet them in person, then only they can understand whether they have a good connection. Everyone has certain expectations from their partner, and they want them to uphold those values.
Many Brits have vowed that they would not date a person who supports the opposing political party. Some people also don't like to be with someone who has a different personal goal and outlook towards life.
But on social media, a woman has posted something which has sparked a debate. In this post, she shared how her date did not bring her food because she did not carry any again. She went ahead and asked the people whether she should go out with him again or not.
The woman shared the video on TikTok and also included the subtitles. Through this video, it was noticed that the woman went out on this date for the first time with his man, and she took the initiative to ask him out. She went ahead and added that she did not carry any cash with her. For this reason, the man only bought food for himself and not for the girl.
This woman goes by the name @heydiberberon on TikTok, and she captured that the man was enjoying his meal alone. The woman was just sitting there awkwardly and did not have any food in front of her. She then went ahead and asked others whether she should go out with this man again and also said, "he said pay me or pay me no attention."
The woman showed displeasure when she liked a post that stated, "a gentleman won't do you like that." This video immediately went viral and gained over three million views, and her followers had two different opinions.
One woman commented on her post that if the guy asked her out, then he should pay for the date, and if the girl asked him, then she should pay. She went ahead and added that the girl asking this question was a big red flag. Another person added that they always pay for the first day. They also said that if the man came to the date and expected a freebie, then the woman should not go out again with him.
Lastly, one other person commented on the post that she should always carry cash along with her in case of emergencies. The person said that if the man had left her alone, then she should have been in trouble getting back home.