During the initial months of dating an individual, it is often difficult to assume what the opposite person’s intentions and beliefs are when it involves dates. However, one woman on Reddit has been left particularly perplexed after she spent the night with a man she’s been dating for the past year.

The confusion started to kick in when the man asked her if she was interested to cook a nice meal together. While that might seem like a nice date idea, there was one surprising condition. He supposedly only wanted her to cook with him, and had no plan of letting her stay to actually enjoy eating the food they had cooked together.

In her post, the woman explained that the day before she met with the guy she had been dating for the past year. Throughout the date, there were some disagreements, but they ended up sorting them out. As they lived in different cities, she slept at his place and the next day he asked her if she was okay with the idea of them cooking a delicious spread together.

When he proposed that plan, she was exhilarated as that was something they loved to do together for fun and would compensate for the terrible evening they had. She thought that he suggested it because he knew that she liked cooking and spending time with him, so it would make her feel better. She found the idea to be great and was immediately down for it. She was excited to spend some quality time cooking and eating together because they were both big food lovers.

Coming to the point, she told the readers that when they were walking through the supermarket to get the groceries for some elaborate 4-hours recipe, he suddenly asked her to remind him to put aside some food so she could have it as well. She was shocked to hear that and questioned what he meant by that.

The woman then disclosed that her date had actually invited some of his friends to have dinner at his house, who would be eating with him, and he had no intention of introducing her to them at the moment. When he saw her upset, he got very annoyed and held her accountable for making assumptions about their dinner plans.

He wanted to include her in cooking a 4-hour recipe but didn't want her to participate in the eating part. She got quiet and upset as she was expecting to have fun with him eating great food and making up for a not-so-fun date. She also felt foolish and unimportant because of that.

He got mad at her for being inconsiderate and therefore avoidant about it. She was aware that because of her habit of getting cold and silent, people get furious, and that was why she was able to understand her date’s situation. On the other hand, she felt like he could have conveyed his plan to her clearly and should have cared about her feelings a little more. The woman revealed that she ended up not cooking with her date at last, and commentators on Reddit post said that she made the right choice.