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Have a teenager? Here are a few tips that will help you raise them!

Parenting July, 04, 2025

It is a very known fact that teenagers' behavior is strongly correlated with the quality of relationships they have with their parents. The teenage years are the most important time in every child's life as they carve out their character. It's crucial for parents to encourage their children show patience with them seek their advice and establish a cordial relationship with them. Below-mentioned is 9 tips that can help you in establishing a healthy relationship with your teenage child.

Firstly try to be their friend. Teenagers do want the relationship to be a form of friendship. Nonetheless they need assurance that their parents love and comprehend them unconditionally. However they also need to experience some independence so occasionally the parents might feel a little cut off. Try to act like a friend and react in an accepting manner that doesn't abuse your position as a parent to give him instructions.

Secondly be careful to daily check in on your child. After supper or right before bed having a brief conversation can keep you alert and create an atmosphere of open communication. It would allow you to know what your child is going through in their life. Even teenagers who appear to have lost track of their parents during the other 23 hours of the day frequently react favorably to a goodnight hug and a check-in conversation once they are in bed. Additionally you can plan to go for a walk or ice cream once in a while.

Thirdly accept that they are growing up. While growing up your child needs some space. Try to give them the needed space & privacy but don't be reluctant to inquire about your child's whereabouts. Inquire of them about their aspirations for the future. Get to know the parents and friends of your child's companions without being too invasive.

Fourth attempt to arrive there right after school. Teenagers are most at risk when they hang out with bad companions. Spend time teaching your kid about sex education and the repercussions of using drugs. Make sure there is adult supervision not just an older sibling if your kid will be with friends. It's important to monitor their actions without interfering too much with their lives.

Fifth hold yourself to a high level. Your adolescent strives to fulfill their potential. However don't expect your kid to accomplish the goals you set for them. It would be great if you would encourage them to start outlining their own goals. Nonetheless you can help them in doing so. Encourage your teens as they pursue their interests and develop their individual styles.

Sixth be in constant contact. You cannot affect the result if you don't understand what's happening. Try to be a good listener. Pay attention to everything your child says try to fix any problems they may have and ensure that you will always be there for them.

Seventh try to eat meals together. Talking about the day's events over meals is a wonderful way to relax and strengthen family ties. They are also your best chance to stay informed about your teen's life and struggles as well as to identify potential issues.

Eighth teach them the importance of self-care. It is your responsibility to inculcate good habits in your child. You should also teach them to never forget to care about themselves. Every teen needs a healthy balanced diet and between 9 and 12 hours of slumber per night. Early adolescent boys should avoid coffee and screen time because it disrupts their regular slumber cycles. 

Ninth encourage them to get involved in events. Taking part in high school contests will help them develop their leadership abilities and winning attitudes. It will also help them to develop a feeling of accountability.

The above-mentioned tips could not only help you in establishing a close connection with your child but would help your teen to grow into a responsible adult. Nonetheless they could form the base of a beautiful relationship.