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Bride Gets Infuriated at Her Sister for Getting Married Before Her

Relationships July, 14, 2025

This incident is about a bride who is planning to get married next year but her sister who got proposed by her boyfriend decides to get married later this year. This uncomfortable situation for the bride makes her furious as her sister will steal all the attention by tying the knot before her.

 

It is very common for siblings to be competitive when it comes to school and other sports achievements but have you ever heard of siblings competing for making big decisions in life?

 

A 25-year-old woman shares her story on Reddit disclosing that both she and her sister are engaged currently but her sister is furious as she has decided to get married several months before her sister's wedding.

 

She shared her story anonymously, the bride explained that her older sister, 27, got engaged at the end of the previous year and was planning to get married in 2023.

 

In the Reddit post, the woman also told that her boyfriend recently proposed to her, and after that, they got to know that his brother was diagnosed with an “aggressive disease”. They have decided to postpone their wedding so that his brother can get well till then.

 

She wrote: "My sister and I were, as children, always very competitive in sports and grades, but as I got older I didn’t want that anymore, so I changed to a different sport and studied something completely different than her.”

 

She added: "She then started to get competitive with our personal life. She was always very passive-aggressive about me having a boyfriend first. Later, I moved in with my boyfriend and she made mean comments about it all the time.”

 

Fortunately, her sister found someone as her perfect match and it was all going well. The woman knew that her sister always wanted to be the first one to marry and have children and she herself wasn't bothered because she wasn't in a hurry. On the day of Christmas, her sister announced that she was planning to get married in 2023.

 

"At the beginning of this month, my boyfriend and I got a call from his younger brother. He was informed by his doctor that he has a very aggressive disease. We couldn’t believe it and went to his home to be there for him. My boyfriend was the best man for our wedding and it meant a lot to him.”

 

The woman's boyfriend had asked her the previous week if she could marry him. He added that it might not be as romantic as they wished but he wants to marry in the presence of his brother, who would also be his best man. The woman knew that her sister would be troubled by their wedding plans so she called her to insist that they would be only having a small ceremony but still she seemed to be jealous.

 

She added: "I never cared about an expensive wedding with a lot of people and always wanted to have a nice day with the most important people in our life so I could get that. I agreed because I love him and I also know how happy it would make his little brother. But I immediately knew that this would cause stress with my sister.”

 

After all this her sister still overreacted on this, she already felt bad to do this as her sister announced her wedding before her and didn’t want to ruin her moment.